Double Your Dating Review

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Double Your Dating by David D’Angelo might be the most famous dating How To guide for picking up women in existance. And there are very good reasons for this and I’m going to write this quick Double Your Dating Review so you can see why I think this.

Much of the book is common sense, but a lot of it will seem counter-intuitive at first, but once you start getting into the mindset and actually seeing how it works you’ll kick yourself for not being more assertive in the first place.

I’m gonna run through the salient (for me anyway) points in DYD and tell you why you NEED this book.

Casanova’s Double Your Dating Review

Cocky and Funny

I’m not a fan of this phrase, but I guess that’s what David felt was the best way of putting this across. There is a certain personality type which attracts women instantly on a superficial level. Cocky and funny epitomises this.

Cocky – Sure of yourself, a little arrogant. Think about what this says about you to a woman. It says that you are an alpha male, powerful and comfortable in your own skin (which is super-important for women).

Funny – Needs no explanation. Why is this important? When you meet someone that makes you smile, or laugh, how do you feel about them. You want to be around them more.

Combine the two traits and you have someone that women want to be around and find almost irresistibly attractive.

It’s simple human psychology, but the process of developing those traits is not so simple. It takes some work, but virtually anyone can do it. Look at David D’Angelo. If he can pick up loads of chicks, anyone can.

Not Fawning Over Women

For someone like me, this is obvious, but only because I’m an unfriendly sort of guy deep down. It’s difficult for me to be naturally polite so I often come across as dismissive.

This to a woman, is often a sign of a challenge, especially when other men are falling at her feet. I’m like this because of Rudyard Kipling’s famous phrase ‘A woman is just a woman, but a good cigar is a smoke’, which is not to say that I have no respect for women, because I certainly do, but I’m not gonna bow down to one just because she’s attractive.

Women aren’t used to men who don’t fawn over them so are intrigued. And will make more of an effort to get with you!

As you can see being slightly rude and stand offish towards women aren’t what you might automatically think are the best ways to win them round and get them to go out with you. We’ve all spent years being brainwashed into being gentlemen and treating women like helpless princesses.

In reality, women don’t want to be treated like helpless princesses and gentlemen may be good for marriage, but they want a bad boy for one night stands.

That’s just two of the dozens of things that David teaches in Double Your Dating, albeit two of the biggest, and some are extremely valuable.

Along with the behavioural changes he recommends, there are dozens of real life examples of average guys and their successes. And it’s not just a simple book, although you can get everything you need from the basic book, there are DVD’s and specialist literature if you need further tuition.

Normally I dismiss ‘pick up artists’ as I think most of them are simply charlatans, but not only is David D’Angelo an extremely astute student of human behaviour, he’s a terrific businessman and great speaker.

There are 2 resources you should use first when embarking on your journey as a lady’s man, this website is one of them, and the other, DYD. I’m being serious when I say that I sincerely hope that this Double Your Dating Review has given you the impetus to buy the book and get serious about having a flood of women at your door.

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How To Talk To Girls – The Opening Line

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How to talk to girls – I would bet that more bullshit has been written about that topic than anything else on the planet.

There are books on the subject. People sell courses on how to perfect the ultimate chat-up line. It’s incredible. And I’m sorry to announce that they simply don’t work.

The wittiest, most incredible opening line ever conceived can just fall flat on its face. Women aren’t robots, they’re not computers you can program and elicit a pre-ordained response from a set series of instructions.

In fact they’re exactly the opposite. They’re unpredictable in their tastes, sometimes illogical and often irrational.

So how can you get around this? And how am I going to show you how to start a conversation with a woman.  Any woman.

First of all, you need to realise that knowing how to talk to girls is simple, it’s a numbers game.

If you want to be the sort of guy who meets women in unexpected places, who isn’t shy to ask any woman out and has a multitude of options on a Friday night, then you’ll need to be able to handle rejection. You could be Brad Pitt and have a 12 inch knob and women would still reject you. So when you start a conversation with a woman and you strike out, mentally shrug your shoulders and move on.

How To Talk To Girls

Secondly, and this is the easy, but strangely overlooked part, just say Hi.

Yup, any conversation can start with ‘Hello, how are you?’

Think about it. How have you greeted girlfriends in the past?

Did you say something juvenile, hoping to make her laugh so that she would talk to you? Obviously not. This however is the strategy of millions of men. That’s way more a random and stupid method than I would put my faith in.

Some dork once said ‘A stranger is just a friend you haven’t met yet’. Lame as it is, that’s totally true. When you start talking to these women, assume a certain degree of familiarity.

If you’re stuck after ‘how are you?’ then you probably need more help than I can give you, but let’s just say you do…

• In a bar – Would you like a drink?
• On the street – Call me forward but I’ll never get the chance to speak with you unless I do so now. Have you got time to grab a coffee?
• In a supermarket – You can always tell what a woman is like by what’s in her basket; will you show me your basket?

Those are just examples. Unless you are confident in your approach, asking a woman to show you her basket may get you a slap.

Remember to have a light manner and not be too serious. Smile and don’t leer. Ask her name, give her yours and shake her hand.

The final step – Get out there and do it!

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Where To Meet Women

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Even people who don’t know that I pass along this sort of advice always tell me that they don’t know where to meet women.  People who are perfectly reasonable, with good jobs and a lot to offer a woman, complain that they can never meet any.

Well, that’s ridiculous.

Never one to mollycoddle people, I can just about point anywhere in public and there are women.  After all, they make up about 50% of our species, and they have the same need to procreate that we do.

The reason, I think, that men find it difficult to meet women is because they don’t open their eyes or broaden their horizons.

Here’s a good example.  I worked on a project with a woman, years ago, who simply got on my nerves.  She was loud and bossy and really annoying.  She wore knee-length skirts and big flouncy blouses, always had her hair tied back in a severe bun and wore black rimmed old-fashioned glasses.  She always insisted on working with me and I just wanted her to go away.  One day she pestered me so much to join her and some other colleagues at a bar to watch football that I relented.  After sinking a few to dull what I believed would be a painful experience, I met up with her and boy was I surprised.  Gone were the glasses and dowdy clothes.  She wore a little black number and the reason for the big blouses became clear;  she had massive breasts.  I screwed her senseless for 4 months until she had to get married.

The morale of the story…There are potential conquests around that you just don’t see.

I don’t know about your personal tastes, but to me only the extremes are unattractive.  Even the plainest girl can look smokin’ hot with a bit of make-up, some 4 inch heels and a bikini.  The very fat or the very skinny, the really ugly or the very old.  Those types I don’t want to sleep with, but otherwise you can be plainly surprised.  A true gentleman will keep an open mind.  Just remember:

You don’t look at the mantlepiece whilst you are poking the fire

So, this post hasn’t been so much about the exact locations of where to meet women, but to realise that there are women everywhere.

Something I’d like to cover in more depth soon are the exact places where I have been successful in meeting women and places which may seem great but have been fraught with disaster for me. For now, in brief, here’s a few…

The Workplace – People always say that office romances are a bad idea.  What utter nonsense.  Something like 30% of people meet their spouse at work.  And if you work in a sizeable company, there are dozens of women to get to know.  It may be uncomfortable when you dump her, or she dumps you, but if you want to live the life of a lady’s man, you have to learn to deal with that.

Fitness Clubs – Not only are women-super vulnerable at these places, many of them actually go there to meet men.

Supermarkets – How can you fail to think of something to speak to her about?  You may strike out a lot at a supermarket, but can you say the word MILF?

Bars – Yes, even in bars there are women looking to meet you.

The Internet – A billion people on the internet.  There’s gonna be a fair few women in your area and they are very easy to meet.

Take off your blinkers and look around.  You need the predator’s attitude.  Every woman is fair game, with notable exceptions, so look at the women you know.  Would you rather bed them, or be friends with them?  If you want to be their friend, then take advantage.  Insist you guys go out and she must bring a single friend.  Women love match-making, but be aware that if you screw her friend over, it will affect your relationship too, so be smart when you want to move on.

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Be Naughty Review

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BeNaughty is one of those sites where you know what you’re going to get. Pictures of (sometimes) hot girls who have set-up profiles in order to have a fling.

Does it work? Of course. If you put the right effort into it.

Anyway, to the site…

It’s easy to join (FREE) and you don’t have to finish setting up your profile before checking out the babes. A couple of things are worth mentioning here…

• There’s no point not finishing your profile.
• Just have a picture of yourself ready for this sort of thing.
• Have a saved Word document with a ready made profile for yourself.  You know the sort of thing  – Headline, a bit about yourself and what you’re looking for in a woman.
• If you don’t upload a photograph BeNaughty hits you with a pop-up telling you how many messages you’ve missed because girls have passed you by.  Pretty good.

Once you’ve done this, it’ll take all of 5 minutes, you can then look around.
In my first 15 minutes I got an email from JulieJugs69 asking if I wanted to correspond.  So that was nice, and what is also nice is the sheer amount of women on the site.

If you’ve read my advice about online dating you’ll know that these aren’t all kosher, and that you have to play the numbers game to be successful.

Benefits of BeNaughty:

• Lots of women (it’s free for women)
• Forums and chatrooms readily available
• Easy to block people you think are ugly or psycho
• It can be cheap

Now, I wouldn’t recommend BeNaughty as a long term proposition, and this is why…

• It’s free for women so they’re less serious than paid sites
• Women tease men for sex when they know it’s all they want.  At least on a regular dating site women might think you want a relationship meaning they’ll be less flaky.

My advice is this…

• Join BeNaughty for FREE and take a look around.
• If you see enough girls you like in your area, join up for one of the shorter periods.  It’s a few bucks for a week and sometimes they have 1 or 3 day deals.
• Spam those girls with emails and play the numbers game.  It’s a blitz strategy and you can be very successful at it if you do it properly.  All it takes is that you dedicate some time to send out as many mails and have asa many conversations as possible, moving it ASAP to normal email and then phone/video chat and then a bar and then your bed.

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Where To Meet Women – Bars – The Ultimate Numbers Game

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If anyone wonders where to meet women and doesn’t think of bars as their first port of call, then something is desperately wrong.

The whole point of socialising in a crowd is to mingle with the opposite sex.  If they’re friends, platonically, if strangers, romantically.

Bars are 100% perfect for this as there is an added ingredient which makes the entire concoction explosive – Alcohol.



That’s no secret.

• Champagne is specifically designed to get women’s panties off
• Beer was invented so ugly chicks could get laid.
• Any alcohol can dull the pain of a break-up and also help you forget your indiscretions.  And anyone who tells you that they have nothing to be ashamed of is either lying or needs to get out more.

As ever, I’m not advocating the use of alcohol to get women into bed, but it is a fabulous social lubricant, which will definitely help you get laid more often than if everyone just drank coffee.  And coffee shops are not somewhere to meet women unless you like them pretentious and armed with a laptop.

Saying that, you would think then that women who take drugs would also be a prime target for the swordsman, but no.  Just no.  Stoner chicks are of no use, they just wanna score their next smoke.  Trippy raver chicks just wanna dance for 24 hours straight and chicks who do coke will do anything, but they’ve done everything with anyone who’ll give them drugs so unless you are super desperate stay away.

Bars are great for picking up women.  There are lots of them and they’re under the influence of alcohol.

But

You still need to have what it takes to go and meet them.

Just go up to whichever woman/women you want to meet and say ‘hi, are you having a good time?’  It’s not a clever chat-up line, it’s just an opener to get the conversation started.  And you know why this works?  Because those women know why you’re going over to speak with them.

And in fact, unless you’re a total dick, or they have very high opinions of themselves, they want to meet new people.  It’s not very often you’re going to approach women in this friendly and open fashion and they tell you to get lost.  They might not stay long, but socialising is all about meeting people.  Just make sure that at least one of those women wants to meet you again.

And that’s not so difficult.  Breaking it into quantifiables, women want something from a man, so what would that be?  Well, I don’t know everything, especially about women as they are a mystery even to themselves.  However, in my experience, here are some things that will make a woman want to spend time with you…

• You’re good looking.  Yes, women are as shallow as we are, so play on that, but look manly, don’t be going out with make-up on.  Unless you’re into goths and then go right ahead.
• You are obviously loaded.  Power is an aphrodisiac, and money means power.  And you can buy them stuff.
• You’re funny and/or interesting.  Be funny, cocky, cheeky, but learn how not to go overboard with that.  There’s a fine line between being amusing or entertaining and being a fool.  Go too far and you’ve lost your woman.

Even if you’re not any of the above, and you should be working towards at least one of them if you want to be a lady’s man, pretend to be for the purposes of getting laid.

So if you’re ever wondering where to meet women, just head out to the nearest bar, get some Dutch courage, and mingle.

Casanova out.

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