Stay Out Of The Friend Zone
Why the hell does nobody listen to this?
If you find a woman attractive and really want to get with her or on her, don’t be friends with her.
Don’t carry her books to class, don’t talk about her ex with her.
- It’s dishonest. Being friends with a woman just so you can get into her pants is not fair.
- It doesn’t work.
- Why would you want to be friends with a woman?
What you’ve got to realise about women is that often, although they pretend to be modest and down-play their looks, they secretly think they are really hot. Especially if they get loads of male attention.
Women like that think that men want to be friends with them simply because they have a sparkling personality and nothing at all do with their looks.
So, there are HUGE opportunities with that sort of woman. Most men want to be fwends (sic) and the man who doesn’t, who just isn’t interested in playing her stupid games, who doesn’t pander to her every whim, is suddenly very interesting indeed.
That’s the subject of another post, so let’s get back to why you should stay right out of the Friend Zone.
- Women don’t see friends as potential lovers
- Once you’re in the Friend Zone, it’s very difficult to get out. Women will refuse to believe you just wanted to be friends to get close to her, so they’ll find it very difficult to accept that you want to be ‘more than just friends’.
- By hanging out with someone you desperately want to be with, you’re exposing yourself to all sorts of heartache when she tells you all about the men she’s been with and is currently going with.
Definitely review your tactics when you start being nicey-nicey to a woman you want to have a physical relationship with.
Briefly, as I’ll go into it in more depth in posts to come, use this type of strategy instead:
- Ensure from the word ‘GO’ that Miss X is aware of your desire to be physically intimate with her.
- NEVER outright tell her that though, at this stage anyway. This’ll keep her on her toes.
- Once you’ve known her long enough to know she won’t boil your bunnes, ask her out. Directly and without apprehension.
No wasted time hanging around with her, hoping she’ll see what a great guy you are. Instant ‘yes’ or ‘no’. If it’s a ‘yes’, great, make arrangements, YOU make the arrangements. If she says ‘no thanks’ or even ‘lol no way’, don’t become angry or aggressive, be polite and move on.
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