Be Naughty Review

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BeNaughty is one of those sites where you know what you’re going to get. Pictures of (sometimes) hot girls who have set-up profiles in order to have a fling.

Does it work? Of course. If you put the right effort into it.

Anyway, to the site…

It’s easy to join (FREE) and you don’t have to finish setting up your profile before checking out the babes. A couple of things are worth mentioning here…

• There’s no point not finishing your profile.
• Just have a picture of yourself ready for this sort of thing.
• Have a saved Word document with a ready made profile for yourself.  You know the sort of thing  – Headline, a bit about yourself and what you’re looking for in a woman.
• If you don’t upload a photograph BeNaughty hits you with a pop-up telling you how many messages you’ve missed because girls have passed you by.  Pretty good.

Once you’ve done this, it’ll take all of 5 minutes, you can then look around.
In my first 15 minutes I got an email from JulieJugs69 asking if I wanted to correspond.  So that was nice, and what is also nice is the sheer amount of women on the site.

If you’ve read my advice about online dating you’ll know that these aren’t all kosher, and that you have to play the numbers game to be successful.

Benefits of BeNaughty:

• Lots of women (it’s free for women)
• Forums and chatrooms readily available
• Easy to block people you think are ugly or psycho
• It can be cheap

Now, I wouldn’t recommend BeNaughty as a long term proposition, and this is why…

• It’s free for women so they’re less serious than paid sites
• Women tease men for sex when they know it’s all they want.  At least on a regular dating site women might think you want a relationship meaning they’ll be less flaky.

My advice is this…

• Join BeNaughty for FREE and take a look around.
• If you see enough girls you like in your area, join up for one of the shorter periods.  It’s a few bucks for a week and sometimes they have 1 or 3 day deals.
• Spam those girls with emails and play the numbers game.  It’s a blitz strategy and you can be very successful at it if you do it properly.  All it takes is that you dedicate some time to send out as many mails and have asa many conversations as possible, moving it ASAP to normal email and then phone/video chat and then a bar and then your bed.

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Online Dating – The First E-mail

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How To Write That All-Important First Email For Online Dating

Remember, first impressions count for everything in this game.

You’ve set up your fabulous online dating profile.  You’ve scanned the listings and see a whole slew of women you are attracted to.  You’ve weeded out the lunatics, the liars and the bunny-boilers.  Now all you need to do is make contact.

As far as I can see, you have 3 real options:

1. Use text speak and betray how crap you are, virtually guaranteeing you will never get to date anyone half decent.
2. Lovingly craft a totally personalized mail to each woman you would like to date.
3. Copy and paste the same message with slight variations to dozens of women.

Read any advice, other than mine, on how to send a mail to a potential mate, and number 2 will be the recommendation.  Most men will go for number 1.  The clever and successful guy will go for number 3 to write his first online dating email.

Let’s look at these different methods of writing your first email in turn.

1. Brief and Brainless:

Subject Line: Hi

Body of Mail: Hw r u? Wanna meet up? Ur hot.

Results – None.

Women will think you are lazy, stupid and not worth dating.  And they’ll be right.  You’re just not thinking straight.  Women, unless they too are slackjawed and diseased, will not want to go out with a guy who sends a mail like that.  The ones who do are not worth going out with.

2. Long and Boring.

You will get greater success with this method, but not much.  You’ll spend an hour writing each mail and you’ll get few replies.  Women don’t care what you’ve written in your mail.  They care about how witty your profile is.  Only if they like your profile and the way you look will they read your mail.  You are wasting your valuable time.  Even if you find the profile of the woman of your dreams, resist the temptation.

3. Short and Personal

Get yourself a format.  You’ll want to introduce yourself, tell her you liked her profile and why (you’re probably going to need to lie, most profiles are awful) and tell her to get back to you.  Don’t ask.  Tell.  Obviously don’t command her to get back in touch, just an assertive touch that shows you aren’t desperate.  Put 1 thing in that shows you have read her profile and ask a question about her.  If she has nothing to write back you won’t get a response, so something witty about her profile ending with a question about the something and you’ve got a winner.  You won’t get a response every time, but that’s why you’re churning the mails out like a madman.  Find what is working for you and maximise on it.

Here are a few don’ts

• Don’t write – If you want to know anything else, just ask.
• Don’t make any comments about her sexiness.
• Don’t try to be too funny.
• Don’t be desperate.  Read your mail again.  Do you sound like you haven’t been laid for 2 years? Or, do you sound like you’re trying out online dating because you’ve heard you can meet really great people this way.

Once you’ve sent out the first batch.  Wait and see what the response is like and analyze what you’ve done and how you can do it better.

It’s going to be a numbers game.  The more you put into it, the more you get out of it and the more practice you get in online dating, writing that first email, the better you will become.

One last thing, and this is really important:

Don’t feel bad if you don’t get a response from every woman you mail.  It’s not gonna happen.  Some women just aren’t going to like you.  Some are not really looking to meet people.  Some are barking mad.

If you don’t get a response and you really like them, try again in a couple of weeks.  Laugh about how they ignored you the first time and make a joke about being persistant, without sounding creepy of course.

Remember, this is even easier than handling rejection in real life.  Suck it up and send some more mails.

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How To Write The Perfect Online Dating Profile

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Why do you need an awesome online dating profile?

We already know that online dating is a goldmine of potential.  That doesn’t mean it’s easy.  In fact if you do it wrong, it can seem downright demoralizing.  Initially it can be difficult to get a reply when you send mails and if you have your heart set on a particular woman you can easily be let down and decide that online dating is actually worthless.

You need to approach online dating with a particular mindset:

• If a woman doesn’t respond to you, don’t take it personally
• Don’t believe a word on any profile you read
• The numbers game will make you successful.

The first thing you’ll need to kick some online dating ass is a great online dating profile.



Now if you look on the big dating websites like SinglesNet or Match.com, they’ll give you loads of advice about listing your likes and your hobbies and really trying to match you up with the perfect person, blah blah.  You’ll want to ignore that nonsense.

Unless you are the type of guy who wants to settle down and smoke a pipe by the fireplace in his slippers, there’s only one reason you want to meet women online…To get laid!

So the perfect woman for you is – a woman you find attractive.  Forget her hobbies and her interests, you won’t be spending more than a couple of weeks with her anyway, and what she’s written on her profile is probably bullshit anyway.

Writing Your Online Dating Profile

Here’s some definite DONT’S for your profile:

• DON’T start off by writing ‘ooo I don’t know what to write here’ or ‘this is difficult, I’ve never been good at selling myself’.  You sound weak and indecisive.
• DON’T list all the triathlons you’ve done and all the dozens of sports you do.  A couple is fine.  You want to sound athletic without going over the top.
• DON’T talk about how great your car is or how big your penis is (she will assume it isn’t).

DO:

• Be totally different.  Look at your pathetic competition and go the opposite way.
• Be cocky and funny, tease a little.  For example on one of my profiles I noted that I didn’t want to meet someone who since her most recent photograph had lived on a diet of pizzas and cheesecake and cut her own hair with nailclippers.  Dozens of women included that in their mails to me, stating that they didn’t do those things.  Women want a bit of back and forth banter, not endless boring questions about what they do for a living and where they went on their last vacation.
• Ensure that your profile pic has you smiling or at least looking cocky.  Don’t take yourself too seriously, because women will think you’re a player at best, or a dickhead at worst.  Have all your clothes on in your photographs.
• Spell-check.  While you might still want to bang that hottie who writes ‘lol’ at the end of every sentence, women are a little more picky.

Be unique, get a critique of your online dating profile from some females you know and get yourself out there.

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Online Dating – Is It Worth Your Time?

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Online Dating – The words that strike fear into men.

A common issue that men have is that they don’t know where to find women to hit on.  Well, they’re not thinking straight if you ask me.  The internet has revolutionized the art of meeting women.  Now you don’t even have to try. 

Online dating is where it’s at!

There are dozens of websites that will facilitate the meeting of women, most of them are crap, but they exist and they can be super-effective if you play your cards right.

• Singlesnet
• Plenty of Fish
• Zoosk (via Facebook)
• And of course the expensive ones like Match.com

One thing they all have in common – there are dozens, if not hundreds of women, in your area, who have created profiles and frequent these sites.



There’s one big drawback…

Not all the profiles are women who want to date.

• Some of them just do it for an ego boost.  Ooo, I’ve received 30 winks and 20 emails, I’m pretty and

  popular.

• Some of them have such a narrow view of the man they want to be with that nobody will live up to their criteria so you’ll never score with them.
• Some of them are men pulling a scam.

Now, of the remaining 70% (a figure I am pulling straight outta my ass), some you seriously should stay away from.

• The profiles without a body shot – The woman is ashamed of how she looks.  You may like fat women, so you can ignore this advice, but I don’t and I’d like to be able to be attracted to the women I date.
• Profiles with photographs that look dated – Again, not willing to show what she looks like now means she’s piled on the pounds.
• The ones that start their profiles with things like – No Timewasters! No Scammers! No Playas! No Pretty Boys! – She’s not going to be a pleasant woman.

You’re probably, and this is best guess based on my years of experience on dating sites, going to be able to choose from about 40% of the available profiles.  Then you need to charm them into going out with you. That’s the easy part.  For those of you who want lots and lots of information on this right now, CLICK HERE to receive a free email dating course.

So, is Online Dating worth your time.  Yes, 100% yes!

Only 150 matches for your search, let’s see, that’s 60 women who will realistically be datable, if only 10% will go out with you, that’s 6 women.  You’ll be able to tap the same site 6 months later for the same amount.  If you’re only using the sites listed, that’s 24 women every 6 months by sitting on your behind in front of your computer.

To make the most of Online Dating, you’ll need to have the following

• An awesome profile
• The ability to type decently and spell like an adult
• Patience

I’ll run through these in a different article, but for now, you will have nothing but success if you create a profile on all the free ones listed above and start chatting to women on the net.  Failure is non-existent in this scenario.

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