Now, I don’t mean get back with an ex who has dumped you. You should NEVER do that. She’ll just dump you again in the future.
Disastrous!
Other than that, there are 2 other scenarios I can foresee:
- You had a brief fling with someone perfectly nice but it just fizzled out for some random reason
- You broke up with someone who has now come back and asked for another chance.
Let’s tackle those 1 at a time.
It often happens that you meet someone you quite like, maybe you only see them a few times but you get caught up with someone else, or are just too busy for any sort of relationship. You then see them again and realise that this is the one that got away. I can’t see anything wrong with pursuing that avenue at all.
Now, the second type of ex is a different kettle of fish.
You dumped her for a reason didn’t you?
Has that reason gone away?
Here are some reasons that may have gone away:
- You broke up with her because she had small breasts or was too fat. She may have had a boob-job or lost weight and stopped eating cakes.
- She was married. She may well have got divorced.
All very well and good.
Now here are the things that just don’t go away:
- She was controlling. Why would you risk getting back into all that? You should be doing everything you can to avoid a controlling woman.
- She was jealous. She hasn’t stopped being jealous, no matter what she says. But you won’t find out until it’s too late!
- She was aggressive or violent. Leopards. Spots. This is an utter no-win for a man. You can’t fight back, so you just gotta take a beating. Nope. Stay well away.
- She was lousy in bed.
- She wasn’t very pretty.
- She was annoying.
None of these things have changed. Our minds instinctively block out bad things. Unless she was absolutely psychotic and put sugar in your gastank you might consider giving her another chance because you’re horny, or lonely, which you shouldn’t be if you’re paying attention to this website.
Resist the temptation.
Unless you’re Amish there are an unlimited amount of women out there. If you’ve exhausted all the possibilities in your area, well done, high five, now move to a big city.
Go to BeNaughty immediately, sign up for free, and start meeting some women who you don’t know. They might all be crazy, but you won’t know that for at least a week, so go have some fun and forget about your ex.
So my advice is, never get back with an ex for more than a night, and even that’s pushing it.
If you absolutely have to get back with an ex, don’t say I didn’t warn you and take the advice of someone who knows a bit about the subject.
