If anyone wonders where to meet women and doesn’t think of bars as their first port of call, then something is desperately wrong.
The whole point of socialising in a crowd is to mingle with the opposite sex. If they’re friends, platonically, if strangers, romantically.
Bars are 100% perfect for this as there is an added ingredient which makes the entire concoction explosive – Alcohol.
That’s no secret.
- Champagne is specifically designed to get women’s panties off
- Beer was invented so ugly chicks could get laid.
- Any alcohol can dull the pain of a break-up and also help you forget your indiscretions. And anyone who tells you that they have nothing to be ashamed of is either lying or needs to get out more.
As ever, I’m not advocating the use of alcohol to get women into bed, but it is a fabulous social lubricant, which will definitely help you get laid more often than if everyone just drank coffee. And coffee shops are not somewhere to meet women unless you like them pretentious and armed with a laptop.
Saying that, you would think then that women who take drugs would also be a prime target for the swordsman, but no. Just no. Stoner chicks are of no use, they just wanna score their next smoke. Trippy raver chicks just wanna dance for 24 hours straight and chicks who do coke will do anything, but they’ve done everything with anyone who’ll give them drugs so unless you are super desperate stay away.
Bars are great for picking up women. There are lots of them and they’re under the influence of alcohol.
But
You still need to have what it takes to go and meet them.
Just go up to whichever woman/women you want to meet and say ‘hi, are you having a good time?’ It’s not a clever chat-up line, it’s just an opener to get the conversation started. And you know why this works? Because those women know why you’re going over to speak with them.
And in fact, unless you’re a total dick, or they have very high opinions of themselves, they want to meet new people. It’s not very often you’re going to approach women in this friendly and open fashion and they tell you to get lost. They might not stay long, but socialising is all about meeting people. Just make sure that at least one of those women wants to meet you again.
And that’s not so difficult. Breaking it into quantifiables, women want something from a man, so what would that be? Well, I don’t know everything, especially about women as they are a mystery even to themselves. However, in my experience, here are some things that will make a woman want to spend time with you…
- You’re good looking. Yes, women are as shallow as we are, so play on that, but look manly, don’t be going out with make-up on. Unless you’re into goths and then go right ahead.
- You are obviously loaded. Power is an aphrodisiac, and money means power. And you can buy them stuff.
- You’re funny and/or interesting. Be funny, cocky, cheeky, but learn how not to go overboard with that. There’s a fine line between being amusing or entertaining and being a fool. Go too far and you’ve lost your woman.
Even if you’re not any of the above, and you should be working towards at least one of them if you want to be a lady’s man, pretend to be for the purposes of getting laid.
So if you’re ever wondering where to meet women, just head out to the nearest bar, get some Dutch courage, and mingle.
Casanova out.
