Even people who don’t know that I pass along this sort of advice always tell me that they don’t know where to meet women. People who are perfectly reasonable, with good jobs and a lot to offer a woman, complain that they can never meet any.
Well, that’s ridiculous.
Never one to mollycoddle people, I can just about point anywhere in public and there are women. After all, they make up about 50% of our species, and they have the same need to procreate that we do.
The reason, I think, that men find it difficult to meet women is because they don’t open their eyes or broaden their horizons.
Here’s a good example. I worked on a project with a woman, years ago, who simply got on my nerves. She was loud and bossy and really annoying. She wore knee-length skirts and big flouncy blouses, always had her hair tied back in a severe bun and wore black rimmed old-fashioned glasses. She always insisted on working with me and I just wanted her to go away. One day she pestered me so much to join her and some other colleagues at a bar to watch football that I relented. After sinking a few to dull what I believed would be a painful experience, I met up with her and boy was I surprised. Gone were the glasses and dowdy clothes. She wore a little black number and the reason for the big blouses became clear; she had massive breasts. I screwed her senseless for 4 months until she had to get married.
The morale of the story…There are potential conquests around that you just don’t see.
I don’t know about your personal tastes, but to me only the extremes are unattractive. Even the plainest girl can look smokin’ hot with a bit of make-up, some 4 inch heels and a bikini. The very fat or the very skinny, the really ugly or the very old. Those types I don’t want to sleep with, but otherwise you can be plainly surprised. A true gentleman will keep an open mind. Just remember:
You don’t look at the mantlepiece whilst you are poking the fire
So, this post hasn’t been so much about the exact locations of where to meet women, but to realise that there are women everywhere.
Something I’d like to cover in more depth soon are the exact places where I have been successful in meeting women and places which may seem great but have been fraught with disaster for me. For now, in brief, here’s a few…
The Workplace – People always say that office romances are a bad idea. What utter nonsense. Something like 30% of people meet their spouse at work. And if you work in a sizeable company, there are dozens of women to get to know. It may be uncomfortable when you dump her, or she dumps you, but if you want to live the life of a lady’s man, you have to learn to deal with that.
Fitness Clubs – Not only are women-super vulnerable at these places, many of them actually go there to meet men.
Supermarkets – How can you fail to think of something to speak to her about? You may strike out a lot at a supermarket, but can you say the word MILF?
Bars – Yes, even in bars there are women looking to meet you.
The Internet – A billion people on the internet. There’s gonna be a fair few women in your area and they are very easy to meet.
Take off your blinkers and look around. You need the predator’s attitude. Every woman is fair game, with notable exceptions, so look at the women you know. Would you rather bed them, or be friends with them? If you want to be their friend, then take advantage. Insist you guys go out and she must bring a single friend. Women love match-making, but be aware that if you screw her friend over, it will affect your relationship too, so be smart when you want to move on.
