I’ve never read any advice on meeting women apart from David D’Angelo’s incredible Double Your Dating. From that I figured out that I wasn’t the only one using those sorts of strategies. I thoroughly recommend this to any man who wants to up his game and be more successful with the opposite sex.
As part of my research for creating this website, I watched a few youtube videos and looked at a few forums, and it seems that every other piece of dating advice boils down to one of two things:
- Pick up women by being a dick OR
- Pick up women with some sort of scientific strategy.
In fairness, I’m sure both of those methods have some relevance, but on the whole, they’re pretty much like a lot of other websites out there that seem to good to be true. How to make a million dollars by selling used panties, you can make yourself 4 inches taller with some simple exercises, increase your cock length by 20%, etc. It’s all a load of hokum.
How To Pick Up Women By Being A Dick
Well, we know that being a nice momma’s boy ain’t gonna cut it, and girls go for the bad boys, so let’s make a meal of that. Be more mean and moody, be less respectful to women. Don’t always show up on dates, be really arrogant and stand-offish. Tell (instead of asking) them you’re gonna take them out, insist she pays and then make your move virtually straight away, letting her know that you’re a man who gets what he wants.
Ok, that’s absolute nonsense. If you’re James Dean you can get away with that. If you’re Joe Blow aged 49 going bald with glasses and a cheap suit, it ain’t gonna work. The only people that is really gonna work for is the sort of guy who is all confidence/stupidity but he probably doesn’t need a strategy with women.
You are much better off being respectful, but direct. Friendly, but not sickly sweet. Manly, but not overpowering.
How To Use A Strategy To Pick Up Women
I couldn’t believe this crap when I first saw it. No idea where it comes from, but it’s hugely insulting, a massive waste of time and congratulations to the guy who invented it, he’ll be worth millions.
So, I’ll not name any sites, methods, etc, but here’s an example of a question asked on one of them
‘I was just really confused about a Takeaway, I feel it’s like the same thing as a Roll Off? So when I have Hooked a set, do I just leave the set and go talk to another girl? Do I ever go back to the girl?’
Ok, utter gibberish you might think, but this jargon has got thousands of people hooked and using these techniques to pick up women. It gets worse:
‘I open an HB10 and she is receptive, do I give her 3?’ ‘Yea, playful neg though, although the neg is a calibrator’
Here’s the funny thing about these stupid techniques:
They don’t work at all, but the mere effort of getting out there and trying them, with the added confidence that a ‘system’ or ‘plan’ gives you, will ensure that you meet and date more women.
The real secret of long lasting success with women, is
Be Yourself But Better
Stop being scared to approach them, don’t be a jerk and don’t try out ridiculous chat-up lines you find on the internet. Women aren’t robots that respond mechanically to pre-designed commands, nor are they objects you can classify scientifically.
Using a ‘technique’ is dishonest and not very satisfying.
